The Little Things That Attract Costa Rican Women
Sometimes, you don’t need to make any grand gestures to make a woman fall for you.
If you want to make a Costa Rica lady like you, start off by being a gentleman. Just be a nice man in general. You won’t get any points if you’re the equivalent of trash, especially to women. And this doesn’t help you either if you’ve found the one and are trying to woo her.
No need for big gestures — they sometimes feel like you’re overcompensating for something or trying to say sorry. They’re nice every once in a while and ladies do love surprises. But women are the sensitive type. Most of them are romantic too. Little things will matter to them a lot more than you surprise her with a truck full of roses.
She likes it when you actually listen to her
What a lot of men do when trying to get a girl to be interested in them is fail at listening. Look, I get it. Some girls just like to talk on and on and it’s hard to pay attention to things that you aren’t naturally interested in. That part’s fine.
But not trying to retain any information on what she’s saying? Acting bored when she talks? Not asking questions and not offering anything to the conversations?
To her, they spell out “he’s not interested in you.” They tell her that you don’t care enough to listen to her, what more when you two are in a relationship? How about when you two marry? Are you just going to bypass anything she says because you aren’t interested enough?
Look, women like to talk. Some are more talkative than others and if she’s someone that legitimately talks less than normal, it’s even more imperative that you listen when she does.
When you’re meeting with a pretty lady from Costa Rica, she might be scared or nervous talking to you. You can talk too and engage in the conversation all you like. But don’t just keep talking. Get her to talk to. And when she does, listen. Pay attention. Ask questions. Get interested in what she has to say.
A woman likes it when a man pays attention to her. It makes her feel validated and important. Don’t neglect this.
She likes it when you make an effort to make her laugh
Women tend to fall in love with men who make them laugh. Most of them love a man with a sense of humor since it’s a sign that he will make her smile throughout their relationship, especially when she feels down.
Anyone that can make you smile is someone special.
In the long run, you and your partner are going to spend the rest of your life together. One of you needs to know how to pick things up when life beats you down. Because life will beat you down.
So it makes sense that a woman, no matter what race, will look for a man who knows how to make her smile and laugh.
She likes when you’re well-dressed and clean
No man will ever progress with any girl if he isn’t up to par with cleanliness. Women hate trashy men and they especially hate it when they smell like trash. If you know how to groom yourself properly, then she sees it as you being orderly and husband-material.
Women also like it when their men smell nice. If you put in the effort to dress up and look nice, it means you care enough to want to look good for her.
A lot of women will judge you for your choice of clothing and sensible hygiene. The effort you make will matter to her because it means you want to take care of yourself for her.
She likes when you’re straightforward
There is no use beating around the bush with her. Be straightforward with your intentions right from the very beginning. Costa Ricans, like every other Latina out there, don’t like to be falsely led on. They appreciate a man who knows what he wants and is proactive about getting it.
If you like her, approach her. Talk and make conversation. Make your intentions clear. She will see that you care enough to not give her false hope if you tell her that you like her.
It’s easier said than done, though. I know how hard it can be to pull up the courage. In fact, everyone does. But that’s why it’s more impressive and awe-inspiring when you finally go up and talk to her.
Women value an honest man. Don’t act like your something else just to impress her because that never ends well. If the day comes that you do get together, you wouldn’t want to keep being the false you during the course of your relationship.
She likes when you appreciate family
Family is everything to most, if not all Latinas. No exceptions. Most of the adult women in Costa Rica still live with their parents, which is common in other countries as well. These people choose to stay even if they have families of their own so respect that if you want to be in her good graces.
If you’re discouraged about this then it’s best you try your luck elsewhere. Family is non-negotiable when it comes to a lot of Latinas. If you aren’t willing to put in a lot of effort in making peace with her family, then stop right now.
She will take note of how you talk about your family. That’s her gauging what kind of family man you will be. After all, she’s also going to be looking for a man to marry. She’s going to judge you based on that too. So watch how you talk about your parents, your ex-wife or your children, because she will compare that to how you’re going to act when you’re married again.
When you care and it shows
Women are really keen on the little things. The subtle things you do will be taken into account because it’s how they measure your level of care towards a woman.
The point here is that if you care enough about her, then your actions will show it. Take note that a lot of women aren’t dense, especially when it comes to the man they like.
Watch how you act. If you really like her and want to show it to her, treat her like a lady. Treat her like a queen. Most of all, treat her with respect.
