GENDER & SOCIETY
“Do guys think that girls who confess first are easy to get?”
Well, I can’t speak for all the men in the world, but as far as I know this isn’t really that big of an issue. I’m pretty sure this idea is one of those misconceptions that get blown out of proportion by popular media.
So no, I don’t think guys find girls who confess first “easy” in any way. First, he’ll already know by then that she has feelings for him, so the ball’s in his court. There’s nothing to “get”, so to speak, only to accept.
Second, guys may even appreciate this kind of gesture.
In fact, a lot of men I know tend to complain that the pressure of confessing often being on their shoulders is a little tiresome and unfair. I’m sure they’ll enjoy being the receiving end of a cute and passionate admission of feelings every now and then.
Also, being the person to confess first doesn’t really make anyone easy. It just means they’re braver because they’re willing to take the risk of rejection, or worse, embarrassment. That doesn’t sound easy to me at all.
