REALITIES
“How do I find love?”
Here are three things you can do to get started:
First, get out of the house and travel. You can start small. Maybe walk around your neighborhood or visit the new restaurant in town. Then visit another city. And when you’re ready, travel to another country. Meet new people. Build relationships. Keep in touch with the people you meet along the way. The world is too big for you to run out of things to do and people to befriend. Who knows, you might just find true love in the process.
Next, build confidence. You need to believe in yourself enough to know that there is someone out there who is worthy of your love. Be confident that you’re going to meet that person. At the same time, be patient. You’d be surprised how much a person’s confidence can attract the right people, and you might just end up attracting the love of your life.
Lastly, and I always say this to my friends and family, have the mindset to lead a happy life. Having that kind of perspective will open a lot of doors for you. Pursue the things that make you happy. Let go of the ones that don’t. I know it’s easier said than done, that’s why they say practice makes perfect. So even with this, you can also start small. Don’t set high expectations for yourself at the beginning of the process. Do it little by little. Once you get the hang of things, it’s all smooth sailing from there.
