DATING TIPS

Costa Rican Dating Culture: How to Capture a Tica’s Heart

Paula Hernández
3 min readOct 6, 2023
A man applying his knowledge of Costa Rican dating culture as he tries to win over a Tica at the socials
Avoid heartbreak! Apply your knowledge of Costa Rican dating culture to capture her heart. | Photo taken during one of Costa Rica Women Tours

Why do some men struggle with unrequited love?

It’s not just their lack of courage to confess; it’s also because they struggle to break down the barriers women build to protect themselves from potential heartbreak.

However, when it comes to international dating, there is one solution that can help you avoid the pain of unrequited love.

Instead of courting her the only way you know how, a foreign woman will be more receptive to your feelings if you show affectionate gestures that align with her country’s dating culture.

In this case, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach.

But if you’re interested in dating a Tica, applying your knowledge of Costa Rican dating culture can help break down her walls and capture her heart.

Publicly Display Your Affection

In Costa Rican dating customs, it’s common for couples to engage in public displays of affection.

However, since you are not yet in a relationship, show her that you are open to the idea of PDA by subtly displaying affection.

Pay attention to her body language and, if she’s comfortable, hold her hand or lightly touch her shoulders or waist.

However, remember to follow basic dating etiquette in Costa Rica and only engage in PDA at appropriate times and places.

Avoid engaging in PDA in religious sites or conservative neighborhoods.

Using Terms of Endearment

In some countries, using terms of endearment with your partner may be seen as cringy.

However, in Costa Rica dating culture, it’s a way to show affection and strengthen emotional connections.

Even if you’re not in a relationship, using terms of endearment is common among friends and potential partners.

Having said that, you can try using terms of endearment like “mi amor” (my love), “bella” (beautiful), “cariño” (sweetheart), or “linda” (cute).

Prioritize Communication

When meeting women in Costa Rica, you’ll find that they are fond of staying in touch with their dates. They do this in the hopes of building a stronger connection with them.

This means that if you want to win over a Tica, you need to prioritize communication with her.

Regularly check in by sending caring messages, responding to her, and sharing updates about your day.

This will show her that you’re genuinely interested in a serious relationship.

Display Chivalrous Acts

Costa Rica dating customs emphasize the value of chivalry, where men are expected to care for women.

So to win a Costa Rican woman’s heart, become her protector, provider, and supporter.

Ensure her safety by displaying protectiveness, like walking on the outer side of the road and offering to walk her home.

Also be attentive and offer to carry her bag or hold an umbrella for her when it rains.

Moreover, show respect by acknowledging and supporting her ideas and opinions.

A man who joined the socials with the intention of meeting women in Costa Rica
When meeting women in Costa Rica, understand that adhering to their dating culture is key to winning their hearts. | Photo taken during one of Costa Rica Women Tours

From a Suitor to a Lover

Understanding Costa Rican dating culture helps you set expectations for your roles and responsibilities in courtship.

Adhering to these expectations allows you to communicate your intentions clearly, break down a Tica’s barriers in love, and capture her heart.

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