DATING ADVICE

“How do I choose one life partner with thousands of other equally attractive ones?”

Paula Hernández
2 min readDec 15, 2023

Choosing a life partner has got to be one of the most important decisions in a person’s life, so I can understand if you find it a little challenging.

some beautiful women in white striking for a pose on the field and on a sunny day together
Photo by Anna Shvets on Pexels

For starters, attraction is only one of many things to look into when you’re considering spending the rest of your life with someone. It’s always nice to have a partner who’s easy on the eyes and who can make you feel giddy every now and then, but a life partner requires a little bit more than that.

To help you, try considering these questions:

  1. Is this person someone I value beyond their physical appearance? Will I still enjoy gazing at their face even when it gets spotted and wrinkly with age?
  2. Do I see myself spending a lifetime discovering all the other little things that make them attractive beyond their physical attributes, like their personality quirks and mannerisms?
  3. Am I prepared to continue making myself attractive to this person for the rest of my life, so they continue being in love and interested in me as much as I’m interested in them?

If your answers to these questions are mostly positive, then I’m sure that person is a great candidate to have as your life partner. Good luck!

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