CHEATING

“Would it be fair if I cheated on my husband like hes been cheating on me?”

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That’s called revenge cheating, and no, it isn’t fair. It certainly won’t make you feel better.

It can feel good and vindicating at first, but it won’t last. Chances are, it’s only going to make you miserable because you did exactly what you’re so mad at your husband for doing.

Getting back at him by having an affair yourself will not take away the pain of his betrayal. Worse, it may give him a reason to justify his own mistakes.

I know you’re hurting right now, but please don’t do something you’ll regret.

It’s one thing to be betrayed by someone you love, but it’s also another to turn yourself into someone you no longer recognize just for a notion of revenge that won’t even give you what you’re looking for.

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